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Sadly, Our 17 Year Old Cat Passed Away

A beloved pet passing away is the heartbreaking part of owning a pet that all pet owners have to face at some point.

We form amazing bonds with our cats. Even years after they have passed away, we can still have feelings of sadness. We are left with an empty space in our heart.

It is an extremely difficult decision to voluntarily end the life of a beloved cat through euthanasia.

Sometimes there is a clean cut medical reason but often the edges are blurry and we feel as though we are stumbling about waiting for a sign.

Eventually we do make the dreaded decision or the cat passes away naturally. Even being prepared for a cat passing away doesn’t lessen the feeling of grief.

For people living alone or people without a support system it is a lonely and sad time. There are places online where you can turn to for support.

pet Bereavement Support

This website is specifically about pet bereavement. There is a chat room for those who want to connect with others or share their experience. To use the chat room it is necessary to register on the site, which entails providing a username, email address and making a password. This is free. There is also a paid membership which has other functions. All of the information is on the site.

How Do You Tell The Kids?

Often the kids and the cat have grown up together and the cat’s life from kitten-hood to adult has formed a substantial part of the child’s life.

Even if the kids have left home, everything to do with the cat is embedded in their memories so it is difficult for kids of any age to accept.

Don’t assume the big kids are okay, everyone will feel sad.

It is important to talk about end of life of the pet and what will happen at that time. It is okay to show your sadness.

Grief is part of life and covering it up really sends the wrong message to our kids. Sometimes we do not give our kids enough credit for how they will handle a situation.

Depending on the age of the kids, many have already been exposed to death or have seen it on TV so although it may be the first time they have experienced death personally, it may not be an alien concept.

Create A Memorial

Tommys memorial garden
The cactus in the middle is flowering now

Creating a memorial is a lovely way to acknowledge and remember a pet.

We have recently had a pet death in the family, our beloved cat passed away. He was almost 18 years and it is painful to write about this some 5 weeks later. We have created a memorial garden for him. It is newly planted and the arrangement may have to change as time goes by and the plants become larger. The terracotta dish used was one that the cat for some reason took a liking to and drank from. The hole at the bottom of the pot, for normal drainage as a garden pot, had been covered so it could be filled with water.

Perhaps you can consider planting your own memorial garden that is appropriate and suitable for your circumstances.

Planting a tree or shrub would be another idea to acknowledge that the cat passed away.

Other Ways To Acknowledge The Life Of A Pet

A Tattoo?

A tattoo is not for everyone but is a very popular way to memorialize a pet.

Jewellery For Ashes

Jewellery in the form of a pendant that is specifically designed to hold some of the pet’s ashes is a popular keepsake. This is a way to say that the pet is always close to the heart.

Memorial Website

Posting a tribute on a memorial website as mentioned above is another option – that is usually a paid option.

Make A Photo Book Online

We have endless photos of the cat but they are all in digital format and are not grouped together in any order, other than look at the kitty, the kitty is so cute, the kitty is asleep etc.

Collage of Cat passed away
Favorite Places To Hang Out!

It doesn’t make for easy viewing when photos are on a computer or phone.
I have made photo-books in the past from photos taken on holidays and it is nice to sit down and relive the memories by looking at a book.

Take Videos Of The Cat

We have got many cat photos and many of them are quite similar. What does make a difference is a video. How easy is it to take a quick video. At the time it may not seem like much at all but those videos do become treasure memories. it is not easy to watch a video of a pet that has passed. It is comforting to know that you do have that precious memory that you can call upon from time to time.

Acknowledge The Grief

It is a tough time when a pet passes away. There is no doubt that bundle of fur that has been sitting in the window or on the couch for years and years has wormed his way into your heart.
When he is no longer there it leaves an empty space.

If you plan to bury your cat at home, check with local council first.

Professional pet cremation services are often a preferred option. Your local vet will usually be able to give you information regarding cremation. Often your pet can be collected from the vet by the cremation service and the ashes are then returned to you.

Creating a memorial is a way to maintain and feel the cat’s presence even after the cat passed away.

Pet Funerals Or Celebration Of Life

This can be a way for everyone in the family to group together to acknowledge the cat’s passing.

If children are young it can be as simple as saying a few words and the children saying goodbye.

If children are a little older they may have written a poem or drawn a picture of the cat.

Do You Need More?

Soul Comfort for Cat Lovers: Coping Wisdom for Heart and Soul After the Loss of a Beloved Feline

Liz Eastwood has written this book from a personal perspective along with advice from experts and stories from other cat lovers. Dealing with grief is a personal thing. As with any book designed to help us reflect, there will be parts that resonate more deeply than others.

The book is divided into four parts:

Part 1: Coping With The Loss of your feline Friend : Wisdom for mind, body and spirit.

Part 2: Comfort In Wonder : Allowing the possibility that death is not the end.

Part 3: Emerging Whole : After loss.

Appendix: Soul Comfort Poems for ceremonies

In Soul Comfort for Cat Lovers, you will find validation, coping insights, and practical wisdom conveyed with spiritual warmth.

cats reading the paper in bed
I see that Fluffy passed away dear. She had a long life. Her family must be sad right now!

Senior Cats Need Special Care

The best furniture for senior cats. Your cat needs to be able to easily navigate any furniture. His needs will have changed as he has aged.

How do you choose The best bed for senior cats? There are a few simple requirements that you can use to assess any cat bed to gauge it’s suitability for your senior cat.

How are the teeth of your senior cat? Does he have few teeth or teeth issues. You would be surprised to know that cats can eat quite okay even if they have bad teeth. Thank goodness for that.

Your senior cat may benefit from cat food where the protein is hydrolyzed making it easier to digest. Think about discussing this with your vet at your next visit.

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